The Children’s School’s founder, Lila McDill, was determined that the school would be open to “all elementary children whose emotional and intellectual endowment will enable them to work within this group-regardless of race, ethnic or religious background.”
The Wolf Pack knows that we rise and fall together and live and breathe together. We cannot ignore that we are vulnerable as an entire community and country as long as there are those who feel vulnerable among us. Our strength is not based on anyone, it’s dependent on the strength of everyone.
Below, you’ll find resources for families who want to have conversations about race, systemic issues around justice, and equity at home. We hope these resources help you navigate race, justice, and equity conversations with your family.
The list we’ve provided is not meant to be an exhaustive list of the countless books, media, and educational websites centering on social justice, and we encourage you to share any resources you find with families and friends, too.
BOOKS
For Adults
- Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
- Breathe: A Letter to My Sons by Imani Perry
- Blindspot: Hidden Biases of Good People by Anthony Greenwald and Mahzarin Banaji
- Good Talk: A Memoir in Conversations by Mira Jacob
- How to Be an Anti-Racist by Ibram X. Kendi
- I’m Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for Whiteness by Austin Channing Brown
- Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Bryan Stevenson
- Me and White Supremacy: Combat Racism, Change the World, and Become a Good Ancestor by Layla Saad
- Racial Healing: Practical activities to help you challenge privilege, confront systemic racism, and engage in collective healing by Anneleise Signh
- So You Want to Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo
- The New Jim Crow by Michelle Alexander
- White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard For White People To Talk About Racism by Robin DiAngelo
- Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria?: And Other Conversations About Race by Beverly Daniel Tatum
For Kids
Lower School (Early Learning – Grade 3)
- 80+ Children’s Books That Feature Kids Of Color Just Being Kids by Mother magazine
- A is for Activist by Innosanto Nagara
- All the Colors We Are: The Story of How We Get Our Skin Color/Todos los colores de nuestra piel: La historia de por qué tenemos diferentes colores de piel by Katie Kissinger
- A Sweet Smell of Roses by Angela Johnson
- A Terrible Thing Happened by Margaret Holmes
- Can I Touch Your Hair?: Poems of Race, Mistakes, and Friendship by Irene Latham
- Freedom River by Doreen Rappaport
- Freedom Summer by Deborah Wiles
- Henry’s Freedom Box: A True Story from the Underground Railroad by Ellen Levine
- I Am Enough by Grace Byers
- IntersectionAllies: We Make Room for All by Chelsea Johnson, LaToya Council, and Carolyn Choi
- Let’s Talk About Race by Julius Lester
- Little Leaders: Bold Women in Black History by Vashti Harrison
- Preaching to the Chickens: The Story of Young John Lewis by Jabari Asim
- The Proudest Blue: A Story of Hijab and Family by Ibtihaj Muhammad with S.K. Ali
- Separate is Never Equal: Sylvia Mendez and Her Family’s Fight for Desegregation by Duncan Tonatiuh
- Something Happened in Our Town: A Child’s Story About Racial Injustice by Marianne Celano, Marietta Collins & Ann Hazzard
- The Day You Begin by Jacqueline Woodson
- The Other Side by Jacqueline Woodson
- The Youngest Marcher: The Story of Audry Faye Hendricks, A Young Civil Rights Activist by Cynthia Levinson
- Thirteen Ways of Looking at a Black Boy by Tony Medina
- Through My Eyes by Ruby Bridges
- We March by Shane Evans
- When We Were Alone by David A. Robertson
Upper School (Grades 4 – 8)
Note: The list below offers a range of text that each family needs to consider based on their child’s readiness.
- All American Boys by Jason Reynolds
- American Born Chinese by Gene Luen Yang
- Blended by Sharon Draper
- Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood by Trevor Noah
- Brown Girl Dreaming by Jacqueline Woodson
- Clean Getaway by Nic Stone
- Ghost Boys by Jewell Parker Rhodes
- Harbor Me by Jacqueline Woodson
- It’s Trevor Noah: Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood (Adapted for Young Readers) by Trevor Noah
- Just Mercy (Adapted for Young Adults): A True Story of the Fight for Justice by Bryan Stevenson
- March Book One by John Lewis
- New Kid by Jerry Craft
- One Crazy Summer by Rita Williams Garcia
- Piecing Me Together by Renée Watson
- Roll of Thunder Hear My Cry by Mildred Taylor
- Sit In: How Four Friends Stood Up by Sitting Down by Andrea Davis Pinkney
- Stamped: Racism, Antiracism, and You by Jason Reynolds and Ibram X. Kendi
- The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas
- The Parker Inheritance by Varian Johnson
- The Undefeated by Kwame Alexander, illustrations by Kadir Nelson
- The Watsons Go to Birmingham- 1963 by Christopher Paul Curtis
- This Book is Anti-Racist: 20 Lessons on How to Wake Up, Take Action, and Do The Work by Tiffany Jewell
- We Rise, We Resist, We Raise Our Voices by Wade and Cheryl Willis Hudson
- What Lane? by Torrey Maldonado
After reading books about racism, families can continue the conversation by asking the following questions or prompts adapted from Common Sense Media. (Parents can use this article to decide what conversations their children are ready for, starting with the concept of fairness for younger children and adding on for older children.)
- Families can talk about the role race plays in people’s lives.
- Families can discuss what it means to say, “everyone is equal.”
- Families can talk about slavery in America, the underground railroad, and the amazing things people did, both to escape unhappy, horrible circumstances as well as to help others escape.
- Families can talk about coping with terrible events.
- Has a family member or friend ever helped you work through painful emotions?
- Families can talk about the way incidents of police brutality are portrayed in the media. Some books show a clear case of right and wrong; however, some book characters still seem unwilling or unable to see past bias. How do you see that same circumstance played out in the media?
- Families can also talk about the “talks” your parents give you about safety and how to conduct yourself when you’re on your own. What is different between your family’s talks and talks that might be happening in other families? How does that affect the messages you receive about interactions on the street?
- Families can talk about racism in the past and now. What has changed? What challenges still remain?
- Families can talk about the racial prejudice shown in the book. Where does it come from? Where does it lead? And how can we get past it? How do other stories you know on this theme deal with the issue?
- Have you ever felt like an outsider or like you didn’t fit in? What was the situation?
- Discuss any violence in the story. Did you know things like lynchings and mob violence went on?
- Families can talk about activism and teens. Often, adults tell kids to wait until they’re older to get involved in politics, protests, and the like. Give three examples of what kids can do to be active in their communities when they feel passionate about a cause and how adults can help rather than hold back.
- If you had the opportunity to give advice and support to others, what would you want to tell them? Can you write a letter poem, or story that might help or inspire others?
- What is something you, or our family, can do to stand up against racism and prejudice in our community?
OTHER RESOURCES
Articles & Downloadables
- 4 Things We Should All Teach Kids About Racism Right Now
- 15 Banned or Challenged Books by BIPOC Writers
- 100 Race-Conscious things you can say to your child to advance racial justice
- Antiracist Resources and Reads: Lists for All Ages
- Anti-Racism For Kids 101: Starting To Talk About Race
- Article on Raising Race-Conscious Children
- Beyond the Golden Rule: A Parent’s Guide to Preventing and Responding to Prejudice
- Common Sense Media Resources on Race and Racism
- Diverse Book Finder: Identify & Explore Multicultural Picture Books
- George Floyd. Ahmaud Arbery. Breonna Taylor. What do we tell our children?
- Here’s How W. Kamau Bell Talks About Race With His Kids
- How White Parents Can Use Media to Raise Anti-Racist Kids – Common Sense Media
- Is Your Bookshelf Sexist? [or racist?]: Normalizing Kids of Color in Universal Stories
- KidLit Rally 4 Black Lives: Anti-Racist Resources for Children, Families, and Educators
- Mental Health and Restorative Healing for People of Color
- Racism and Violence: Using Your Power as a Parent to Support Children Aged Two to Five
- Talking About Race, Age-by-Age – Parents.com
- Talking About Race (National Museum of African American History and Culture)
- Talking to Children After Racial Incidents
- Talking With Children About Racism, Police Brutality and Protests
- Talking to Young Children About Race and Racism – PBS Kids
- Talking to Kids About Race – National Geographic
- Talking to Kids About Racism and Violence by Child Mind Institute
- TGUYL Trans Day of Visibility Book Nook
- They’re Not Too Young to Talk About Race (PDF)
- Titles We All Needed in 2021
- Understanding Race and Privilege
- What is Race? Having the Conversation With Young Children – Aisha White, Ph.D.
- Why and How to Talk to Your Child About Racism – Prof. Charity Brown Griffin
- YA Books With BIPOC Main Characters
- Your Kids Aren’t Too Young to Talk about Race: A Resource Roundup
Podcasts
For Adults
For Kids
- Code Switch: The Very Best Code Switch Episodes for Kids
- Kojo for Kids: Jason Reynolds Talks to Kids about Racism and the Protests
- Supporting Kids Of Color In the Wake Of Racialized Violence
- Talking Race With Young Children
Websites
Videos
For Kids
- PBS Kids: Talking To Children Authentically about Race and Racism
- PBS Kids Read Aloud: “You Matter” with Christian Robinson
- Talking to Young Children About Race and Racism – This new half-hour program, “PBS KIDS Talk About: Race & Racism,” features authentic conversations between real children and their parents, and includes content from PBS KIDS series Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood, Arthur and Xavier Riddle and the Secret Museum. The show features kids and their parents talking about race and racial justice-related topics in an age-appropriate way, such as noticing differences in race, understanding what racism can look like, and embracing the role we all have to play in standing up for ourselves and each other — offering viewers ideas to build on as they continue these important conversations at home
COUNSELING SUPPORT
Parents who need additional support or guidance with supporting their children and navigating conversations about race, justice, and equity can reach out to School Counselor D’uana Revere (duanar@tcsatl.org) and/or Lower School Director of Student Life and Director of Equity and Inclusion Morgan Darby (morgand@tcsatl.org).
Learn more about TCS at www.tcsatl.org.
DEFINITIONS
As you read resources found here and on other platforms, you may see the following terms.
Anti-Bias Education
- At TCS, our anti-bias education program is based on Louise Derman-Sparks and Julie Olsen Edwards’s four goals for anti-bias, whose research can be found in Anti-Bias Education for Young Children and Ourselves (2nd Edition, 2020)
- Four core goals provide a framework for the practice of anti-bias education with children. Grounded in what we know about how children construct identity and attitudes, the goals help you create a safe, supportive learning community for every child. They support children’s development of a confident sense of identity without needing to feel superior to others, an ease with human diversity, a sense of fairness and justice, the skills of empowerment, and the ability to stand up for themselves or for others. (REF: The National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) and Teaching Tolerance | Diversity, Equity And Justice)
- Goal 1: Identity
- Teachers will nurture each child’s construction of knowledgeable, confident, individual personal and social identities.
- Children will demonstrate self-awareness, confidence, family pride, and positive social identities.
- Goal 2: Diversity
- Teachers will promote each child’s comfortable, empathetic interaction with people from diverse backgrounds.
- Children will express comfort and joy with human diversity, use accurate language for human differences, and form deep, caring connections across all dimensions of human diversity.
- Goal 3: Justice
- Teachers will foster each child’s capacity to critically identify bias and will nurture each child’s empathy for the hurt bias causes.
- Children will increasingly recognize unfairness (injustice), have language to describe unfairness, and understand that unfairness hurts.
- Goal 4: Activism
- Teachers will cultivate each child’s ability and confidence to stand up for oneself and for others in the face of bias.
- Children will demonstrate a sense of empowerment and the skills to act, with others or alone, against prejudice and/or discriminatory actions.
- Goal 1: Identity
- “Instilling in children love and respect for others that is stronger than hate and prejudice.” (First Grade Team May 2016) — REF: Coloring Outside the Box: An Anti-Bias Approach for Young Children – The Children’s School
Anti-racism
- Being antiracist is fighting against racism.
- Racism takes several forms and works most often in tandem with at least one other form to reinforce racist ideas, behavior, and policy. Types of racism are:
- Individual racism refers to the beliefs, attitudes, and actions of individuals that support or perpetuate racism in conscious and unconscious ways. The U.S. cultural narrative about racism typically focuses on individual racism and fails to recognize systemic racism.
- Examples include believing in the superiority of white people, not hiring a person of color because “something doesn’t feel right,” or telling a racist joke.
- Interpersonal racism occurs between individuals. These are public expressions of racism, often involving slurs, biases, or hateful words or actions.
- Institutional racism occurs in an organization. These are discriminatory treatments, unfair policies, or biased practices based on race that result in inequitable outcomes for whites over people of color and extend considerably beyond prejudice. These institutional policies often never mention any racial group, but the intent is to create advantages.
- Example: A school system where students of color are more frequently distributed into the most crowded classrooms and underfunded schools and out of the higher-resourced schools.
- Structural racism is the overarching system of racial bias across institutions and society. These systems give privileges to white people resulting in disadvantages to people of color.
- Example: Stereotypes of people of color as criminals in mainstream movies and media.
- Individual racism refers to the beliefs, attitudes, and actions of individuals that support or perpetuate racism in conscious and unconscious ways. The U.S. cultural narrative about racism typically focuses on individual racism and fails to recognize systemic racism.
- REF: Being Antiracist
Anti-Black Racism
- Anti-blackness describes the inability to recognize black humanity. (REF: Opinion | Racism Didn’t Kill George Floyd. Anti-Blackness Did.) (REF: The American Nightmare)
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- What many people don’t realize is that anti-Blackness is the root of most oppression and racism in the United States.
- Even for non-Black people with dark skin, such as Indians and Filipinos, some of the racism they experience is rooted in anti-Blackness. There’s also colorism, a type of discrimination in which lighter skin is privileged over darker skin, that exists among people of the same race or ethnicity. Non-Black communities have negative stereotypes about Black people, and these communities will distance themselves in order to maintain some level of power.
- REF: Let’s Talk About Anti-Blackness – Yes! Magazine
- What many people don’t realize is that anti-Blackness is the root of most oppression and racism in the United States.